Sometimes women do/say things that just dont make sense (sorry to the women that read this, im sure us guys do it too). its obviously a big enough issue for you that your throwing it out on this site, so it must be bugging you or otherwise you would have already disconnected from her and it wouldnt be worth mentioning…… i have learned to do things in a way that can leave no space for regrets, but thats just me. Ultimately it is up to you, there is no right or wrong answer. but if you just ditch out and have to wonder if that was the right thing down the road, then maybe thats the wrong decision. Just make sure if youre trying to get rid of her for good that thats REALLY what you want….make sure that it will not cause you regrets in the future, or wish you had tried it out….because if you did go ahead and try to “profess your love”, and it didnt work out, well there is nothing lost there right? i mean if you ended up together, it could turn out great or bad, but at least you tried. of course there is always the classic line of….its not you its me….go find someone less interesting to sleep with, someone you wont get attached to, someone new to occupy your time or thoughts i have had periods where i have gone years between finding those “suitable” ones, and end up being annoyed by airheads and whatnot in the spaces between….īut i guess to answer your question (you want choice 2)….cut out all communication, dont respond to texts or calls or messages….tell her you are moving on, or seeing someone else, or are afraid of commitment, or are too busy or whatever the issue is, if you think that may help clarify the situation. i mean if she is everything you could ever want in another person (besides Zoey of course), then why the hell do you want so bad to get rid of her? is it just a bad time for a relationship in your life? cuz ill tell you from experience man that those types of woman are not a dime a dozen. Hmmm something isnt making sense to me here. I want choice two….but how do I get there? So now there’s two solutions: I could profess my undying love for this girl because chipping away at her constitution through text jokes doesn’t seem to be working, or I can somehow manage to forget her. I’m mad at me because I let myself feel this way. At this point I’m just angry that I’m so hung up on her. Its always cool, we joke with each other, and its always superficial conversation…but I hang onto her every word. The current situation with us is that we text…which is the sh!ttiest form of communication in my eyes. It all came to me gradually that she was literally everything I could ever want in another human being….well almost…she could be Zoey Deschanel but whatever. Here’s the kicker: I realized that I’m madly, freakishly in love with her now. Well we got into a huge fight and long story short, we stopped talking to each other. I narrowed it down to me just enjoying what I had – no strings attached sex, great cook, possibly one of the smartest persons that I’ve ever interacted with which meant great conversation. A lot.Īnyways at some point I could tell that she was starting to feel a little more strongly about us than I was and instead of doing the responsible thing and breaking it off, I kept it going. We were just two people having sex and enjoying each others company. We weren’t boyfriend girlfriend, friends with benefits, fuck buddies, what have you. I started seeing this girl but we didn’t label ourselves anything. Just a disclaimer, I know I’m a hypocrite so try not to judge me too much =p First of all, thanks to anyone who takes the time out to read this novel I wrote here.
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